Lebenswende in German translates to “life turn”; a moment when your life’s journey turns down a completely different path. We all have several such moments in our lives, but Diane Cortazzo made a Lebenswende that changed her and her family’s life forever.
As a child, Diane’s upbringing was much like that of many young Americans growing up in the 60s, 70s, and 80s. “My parents were parents of the Depression”, Diane explained. “We didn’t have a lot of disposable income, and they were quite frugal, so I would say we basically didn’t travel as kids.”
Growing up in Pennsylvania, vacations for Diane and her family often involved heading to the Poconos, a small, wooded mountain range north of Philadelphia. Aside from a trip to Canada and Mexico, by the time Diane was in her early 40s she had never left the United States.
But the world beyond her doorstep was not completely foreign to her. Diane’s mother emigrated from Austria when she was 12, having grown up in the small east Austrian town of Stegersbach. It was her mother’s influence that meant Diane would go on to become a German teacher, despite her homebound upbringing.
In 1996, however, that all changed. “I was with my father during his final days”, Diane said. “And he said to me: ‘Diane, I have done a lot of things right, but my biggest regret is not taking your mother back to her hometown.’
“He told me that – if I ever have the opportunity to travel – I should take it.”
Two years later, Diane’s school lifted the ban on teachers traveling abroad. This was her chance to fulfil her father’s dying wish. She marched into the principal’s office and declared: “I want to take my students to Austria and Germany.”